Is it OK what my lover does? I’m a 38 years old lesbian and it’s the first time I’m asking something on the internet. I have this long term relationship with a woman that is in her early 40’s now and she has a 17 years old “surrogate son”. He is the son of her ex husband because they remained good friends (he is remarried and has this guy). She was really closed with this boy since ever and she is like a second mother to him.
About a year ago he came unexpected to her house caught us making love. He was shocked at first, but then she explained to him that she is a lesbian and that I’m not her friend, I’m her lover. Ever since they got even closer and he is visiting her more often. She started to have sex related dialogs with him and found out that he is still a virgin. So she began to be his “teacher”. They are talking often about sex and mostly about female body; she is giving him advices, talk about lesbianism and how he can learn a lot from lesbians and so on. He is fascinated by Sapphic relations and she is telling him everything he wants to know. We watched lesbian romance movies together but she even borrowed him soft porn DVD with females masturbating and lesbian porn. She said that he is probable watching porn anyway but he needs to see porn with real lesbians (the kind we watch) not with fake actresses.
Do you think is OK what she does?
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Isn't inappropriate what my lover does? I’m a 38 years old lesbian and it’s the first time I’m asking something on the internet. I have this long term relationship with a woman that is in her early 40’s now and she has a 17 years old “surrogate son”. He is the son of her ex husband because they remained good friends (he is remarried and has this guy). She was really closed with this boy since ever and she is like a second mother to him.
About a year ago he came unexpected to her house caught us making love. He was shocked at first, but then she explained to him that she is a lesbian and that I’m not her friend, I’m her lover. Ever since they got even closer and he is visiting her more often. She started to have sex related dialogs with him and found out that he is still a virgin. So she began to be his “teacher”. They are talking often about sex and mostly about female body; she is giving him advices, talk about lesbianism and how he can learn a lot from lesbians and so on. He is fascinated by Sapphic relations and she is telling him everything he wants to know. We watched lesbian romance movies but she even played him soft porn with females masturbating and sometimes we watched together lesbian porn. She said that he is watching porn anyway but he needs to see porn with real lesbians (the kind we watch) not with fake actresses.
Do you think is OK what she does?
Talking to a guy about sex is fine but I wouldnt sit down and watch pornographic material with one. I am bi-sexual and have 4 guys. If my partner sat down to watch porn with my 14 year old son, I would be horrified. I dont care if she was trying to teach him anything or not. Theres a right way to talk about sex with guyren..she needs to find it.